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In Loving Memory of Francis Michael “Rusty” Duffy April 6, 1941 – November 10, 2025
Francis Michael Duffy, affectionately known as “Rusty,” passed away peacefully on Monday, November 10, 2025. Born in Manhattan on April 6, 1941, Rusty lived a life marked by courage, devotion, and quiet strength.
A proud member of the FDNY, Rusty served his city with distinction through assignments at Ladder 17 and Rescue 3 during an unprecedented time in The Bronx, ultimately retiring as a New York City Fire Marshal. His unwavering commitment to protecting others left a lasting legacy and earned the respect of his fellow firefighters and community.
Rusty is survived by his loving wife of 63 years, Geraldine Duffy, and their children: Patricia Drum (married to Donald), Maureen Michielini, and Michael Duffy (married to Paula). Rusty was a devoted grandfather to nine grandchildren, with whom he built countless cherished memories.
He raised his family in Pearl River, New York, where they lived for over 30 years. During that time, Rusty was active in his community, coaching baseball, soccer, and softball for local youth leagues and the high school. His dedication to mentoring young athletes reflected his generous spirit and love for the game. After retiring, he and Gerry became snowbirds, spending the Summer months with family at the Jersey Shore and Winters with great new friends in Barefoot Bay Florida. He continued his softball career with the Barefoot Bay softball league, bringing much-needed lefty power to the lineup.
Rusty was truly loved by everyone who had the pleasure of knowing him. He was the life of the party, funny, laid-back, and endlessly lovable.
His life was rich in love, laughter, and legacy. Though he is no longer with us, his spirit will live on in the hearts of his family and friends.
Our caring professionals are here to assist you and your family during this difficult time. We are available 24 hours, 7 days a week to assist in immediate arrangements or pre-arrangements.
Family of Francis Duffy
November 24, 2025, 9:08 pm
A funeral mass will be held on December 5th at 10am at Church of the Presentation – 271 W. Saddle River Road, Upper Saddle River, NJ, where family and friends will gather to honor and celebrate the life of Francis “Rusty” Duffy.
Funeral Mass Livestream link: http://www.Churchofpresentation.org/funeral-ministry/
Hilda Ferony
November 25, 2025, 3:41 am
He was a very fun guy and loved his family, we had great memories together & always welcome us in his home.
God Blessed & May he rest in peace
Arthur & Hilda family
Joy Obrien
November 25, 2025, 5:29 am
My husband and I met Gerry & Rusty on our honeymoon in the Poconos on September 30,1962 and we’ve been friends to this day. They were married one day after us. Through the years we shared many of life’s moments including celebrating our anniversaries with a weekend in Atlantic City, one time at a fancy restaurant in Manhattan and another time my husband and I flew down to Florida to see them in their Florida home. Rusty was wonderful and caring and he will be missed. My heart breaks for Gerry and their children and grandchildren. I am unable to travel, but I will be live-streaming the Funeral Mass.
Terri and greg Seleman
November 25, 2025, 1:00 pm
Geri, we were saddened to hear of Rusty’s last struggles and of his passing.
You steered him through so much over the years, but kept him enjoying life. Well done! We look forward to seeing you in Florida soon. Take care. Our condolences,
Rick & Donna-Gail Parthum
November 25, 2025, 3:37 pm
Gerry,
We shared many enjoyable fun times together: sitting at our pool, the “softball games”, at each other’s homes, and various clubs at Barefoot Bay. Rusty was a wonderful caring man but especially to his loving wife and family. He will be greatly missed by all who truly knew him. Our love and deepest condolences go out to you and your family.
In Friendship and Love,
Rick & Donna-gail Parthum
Donna-gail Parthum
November 25, 2025, 4:00 pm
Gerry,
We have shared many enjoyable fun times together: sitting by our pool, being at the “softball games”, at each other’s homes, and at various clubs at Barefoot Bay. Rusty was a wonderful caring man but especially to his lovely wife Gerry, and his family. He will be greatly missed by all who truly knew him. Our love and deepest condolences go out to you and your family.
In Friendshipship and Love,
Rick & Donna-Gail Parthum
Carol Lombardi
November 25, 2025, 5:54 pm
Gerry and family. We are all truly blessed to have had your husband and father in our lives.
So many great memories over the past 20 years.
Our deepest sympathies.
Carol and Guy Lombardi
Gerry Armstrong
November 26, 2025, 6:05 pm
Sure gonna miss ur smilin face Frank! Got the pleasure of playing softball with you my first year in league. A great teammate and an even better friend! Godspeed my friend till we meet again, GerryA
Paul & Kathy Chabot
November 26, 2025, 8:18 pm
Paul & Kathy Chabot. Kathy and I are very saddened to hear of Frank’s passing. We will always treasure the memories of the last 20 years. The ballgames and especially attending our 50th wedding anniversary celebration. R.I.P Frank, we will miss you. Our condolences to you, Gerry and your family.
Ronald & Cyndie Bourassa
November 26, 2025, 11:22 pm
Gerry and Family,
We were honored to have known Rusty. He certainly was one of the good guys. His warm smile and kind manner will never be forgotten. I still remember when my dad introduced you guys to us as “the kids” 30 years ago! Our sincere condolences.
God Bless,
Cyndie and Ron
John Lewis Coates
November 27, 2025, 12:00 pm
When Sharlene and I first came down from Canada I had the pleasure of playing ball with Frank. Shortly after through he and his wife Gerri we made many friends and we were made to feel a part of this wonderful community. You will be very missed Rusty. John Coates
John Lewis Coates
November 27, 2025, 12:13 pm
My wife Sharlene and I met Frank and Gerri when we first arrived 14 years ago. I had the pleasure of playing ball and socializing with Frank in the years since. We will miss your friendship Frank. John Coates